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Choose or Someone Will Choose for You

By Jared Dees

I am rereading Essentialism right now and the thing that sticks out to me the most so far is the importance of deliberate choice.

If you are not deliberate about how you choose to spend your time, someone else will choose for you.

In other words, you have to have the strength to say no to opportunities and requests from others.

As my platform has grown as an author, I get an increasing number of requests for my time to write, speak, and share advice. When these new opportunities arise, it is really important to think deliberately about how they align with your vision, strengths, interests, and the need in the world.

If you are not careful, you will end up doing many trivial things that take time away from the vital few things that make the biggest impact.

May 3, 2018 Filed Under: Meaning and Motivation, Meaningful Work, Productivity

About Jared Dees

Jared Dees is passionate about sharing practical resources to teach faith. He is best known for his website The Religion Teacher and is the author of many books including 31 Days to Becoming a Better Religious Educator, Christ in the Classroom, and Beatitales: 80 Fables about the Beatitudes for Children.

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