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The HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired) Strategy: How to Respond Temper Tantrums

By Jared Dees

Sometimes there is no amount of talking through a tantrum. Your child may not be thinking straight for another, more basic reason.

I heard about this little trick in the audiobook of Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson’s The Whole-Brain Child:

HALT and ask yourself:

  • Hungry: Is my child hungry?
  • Angry: Is my child angry?
  • Lonely: Is my child feeling lonely?
  • Tired: Is my child tired?

If the answer is “yes” to any one of these questions, then the many other strategies to help integrate your child’s brain might not work.

Focus on those basic needs first, then help them develop mentally and emotionally.

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December 19, 2017 Filed Under: On Parenting, Playbook

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Jared Dees is passionate about sharing practical resources to teach faith. He is best known for his website The Religion Teacher and is the author of many books including 31 Days to Becoming a Better Religious Educator, Christ in the Classroom, and Beatitales: 80 Fables about the Beatitudes for Children.

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